I have such a strong commitment for a loving couple not to be separated. it is the wish of God to bind together who He blesses. keep praying for him as many of us will and also for comfort and strength to be given you. I pray he be shown the ways back to God. in Jesus name . Amen

i know you love him and i know it's hard. i'm going through something similar. know that whatever plan God has planned for the two of you, NO ONE can change. remember that things are not always as they appear, and adverse appearances work for your good, for God utilizes every person and every situation to bring you your heart's desire. "hinderances are friendly" and obstacles are spring boards.

every person is made in the image of God. i'm currently reading this book by this woman who tells a story of a brotherhood in india who never told each other good morning, rather, they would say, "i salute the divinity in you". they did this day in and day out. not only did they "salute the divinity" in man, but in every thing: nature, food, home. they saw everything and everyone as God had created them...perfect and in His image.

this woman, the author of the book, florence scovel shinn, was a known healer in her lifetime. she was also studied and taught metaphysics. she used the word as a basis and helped people to see their situations differently. one thing she said is, "give a perfect love and you will receive a perfect love. perfect yourself on this person (your boyfriend). Give him a perfect, unselfish love, demanding nothing in return, do not criticise or condemn, and BLESS him wherever he is". of course the woman who was receiving this advice from florence refused to bless her husband because afterall, he did leave her for another woman. florence informed her that she was not loving selflessly. so weeks went by and of course there was not such thing as cell phones then so florence received a letter from the woman whose husband had left her for another. the woman said, "i found i was becoming more poised, and gradually began losing her resentment towards her husband, the cap...that's what she nicknamed her husband. one day she said suddenly, "God bless the Cap wherever he is." according to florence that was real love, and when you become a complete circle, and are no longer disturbed by the situation, you will have his love, or you will attract its equivalent. the woman told florence, she woke one day and all her suffering had ceased. she saw her astranged husband that night and he asked her to marry him...again."

"no man is your enemy, no man is your friend, every man is your teacher". God was teaching this woman how to love unselfishly. maybe God is teaching your boyfriend something in order to make him better...and if it is God's will, you WILL be back together...do not fear. i know it's hard to give the situation to God. i have been battling with it myself for 3 months now. but i KNOW He will. fear and worry are doubt in God's eyes...you certainly don't want Him to see you doubting Him! faith is the key. live your life everyday as if God has already given you your heart's desire...that shows faith. and remember, we can move mountains with pure faith.

after reading this particular situation, about the woman and her husband, i was opened to my own situation. I believe God was/is teaching my ex boyfriend that he needs God in his life and that to turn away from God is the worst thing you can do. and when God has finished working on BOTH my ex and i, He WILL restore our relationship.

i will pray for you and your boyfriend. i will pray that your boyfriend returns to God first because nothing will work between the two of you if God is not present in both of your lives.

say this everyday, as many times a day as you would like...

"My faith is built upon a rock and my heart's desire now comes to pass, under grace in a miraculous way. I now exercise my fearless faith in 3 ways-by thinking, speaking, and acting. i am unmoved by appearances therefore, appearances move. I stand steadfast, immovable, giving thanks for my seeming impossible good to come to pass, for I KNOW, with God anything is possible. I wait patiently on the Lord, I trust in Him, i worry not myself because of evil doers or negativity, for every person is a link in the chain of my good, and God now gives to me, the desires of my heart."

God bless you, and your boyfriend.